Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Stages

The girls have entered a new stage. Now that sister C-bao has turned three and (1) is physically able to keep up with her sister on the playground, at least with most play structures; (2) knows enough English to beat K-bao from time to time at the "What's this English word in Chinese" game, and (3) will no longer take smack lying down (and in fact initiates the smack herself), the sisters are relating to each other increasingly as peers.


This has benefits as well as costs. For example, as laid out on these pages before, on any given weekend morning, the girls are generally the first ones up, and will now happily entertain themselves for as long as the K-folks want to snooze in. (Granted, the running, laughing and shouting that immediately ensues guarantees only very light snoozing)


On the other hand, there are now real fights to break up. Daily. Wait, hourly. The pinching, shoving, and tongue-stick-outing goes both ways. The sass comes right back at ya, in spades. Some form of tattle is told dozens of times a day, by both parties.


But the good news is that the smiles and giggles return quickly - generally within seconds - and before you know it, the tale of woe is forgotten and the next adventure is embarked upon.


These pictures (and the video below) were all taken this weekend as K-Pop took the girls to various restaurants, parks, coffee joints and church. Whether it be silliness on the street or a spontaneous wagon pull after church, in this current stage at least, the girls are genuinely enjoying each other's company.


Friday, January 9, 2015

Happy Recessional

One of the more touching moments of our trip to Singapore recently for XGG (Aunt Catherine) and WZ Shu-Shu's wedding occurred at the end of the ceremony.

Once the marriage was officially declared, the music coordinator started blasting Pharrell Williams' hit "Happy" and the happy couple began leading the wedding party recessional, dancing down the aisle toward the exit. The flower girls, K-bao, C-bao and Cousin Elizabeth, were also supposed follow along.

Little sister C-bao, though, was unsure what to do. The wedding party was moving fast, and once some separation was created, she felt even more hesitant to move forward.

That's when K-bao sprang into action. Looking back, she motioned for C-bao to join. When that didn't work, she came back up the aisle part-way, and demonstrated more actively. Finally, seeing C-bao still rooted to the spot, she came all the way back, took her sister by the hand, and led her back to join the group.

Leave no sister behind!


Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Share

One of the great challenges of parenting is teaching the little ones how to share. And for some reason - perhaps as we think about our own lives - we have an unsettling feeling it's going to be a lifelong process.

...Sharing parents...sharing dresses...sharing toys...sharing space...but most of all...sharing cookies.

C-bao: "Let me have some of that."  K-bao: "No."

K-bao: "Ok, ok. But only because Jesus shared his life and love with us."


Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Coo

One of K-bao's favorite activities these days is entertaining her little sister. This consists of making clown faces and cooing at her at a pitch several octaves higher than her normal voice.

"A-coo-coo-coo-coo-coo-coo!" sings K-bao repeatedly in a high falsetto while prancing around her sister.

C-bao used to enjoy this song and dance routine (and her affirmation would be publicly proclaimed by her sister: "Look! She's laughing! She loves me!"). However, as with all things, novelty wears off, so now she at best smiles weakly and appeasingly, for a moment. Below is a representative sample.


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